Invite an EX?!...That Is the Question!

The opinions seem to be quite strong around the idea of inviting an ex to your wedding.  It is a very delicate and usually quite complicated situation.  In difficult situations I like to create a pros and cons list. I have made a sample one below. Pro and con lists are great because they really show you what you stand to gain from your decision and what you stand to lose. If you stand to lose more, then you really should not risk it. However, even before considering the pros and cons I believe the most important question to ask yourself is why do you really want them there. Is it possible you still have feelings for them? Are they one of your closest friends? Would it be awkward if you didn’t invite them?  

Conflict resolution exercise: If this is a topic that is causing conflict between you and your fiancé you should both make your own pros and cons list and then sit down and calmly discuss the lists together.

Pros:

1.       They are great friends with both you and your spouse

2.       If they are close family friends you will make your family happy

3.       You have a tight knit group of friends or live in a small town and if you don’t invite them it will be awkward. Inviting them avoids awkwardness and is just easier

Cons:

1.       Feelings might resurface all of a sudden during the ceremony

2.       They might get depressed, drink too much and make a scene

3.       Your spouse will be angry all night that they are there

4.       It might add stress to what can be already a stressful day and is one of the most important days of your lives

The pros and cons list above is to help you consider the different effects having them at the wedding can have. Every situation is complicated and you want to make the decision that will make you and your fiancé the most happy on your wedding day!

10 Make-up Tips Every Bride Needs to Know!

1.       Drink lots of water the days before the wedding and on the wedding day to add a glow to your skin and flush out any impurities

2.       Pluck eyebrows and moustache approximately a week before the wedding day to make sure there are no red bumps or rashes

3.       Spend the money on a good quality, long lasting lipstick for the wedding day. Assign one of the bridesmaids as your “checker”. Give your “checker” a big smile before every photo session to make sure there is no lipstick on your teeth.

4.       Make sure to use waterproof mascara in case of tears or sweating

5.       Keep a lipstick, powder and mascara in a similar shade in your purse for touch-ups throughout the day. In addition, if it’s a summer wedding you might even want to consider an extra nail polish for fixing up your toenails if you are wearing sandals or wedges.

6.       Schedule a test make-up session about 2 weeks prior to the wedding to ensure you are happy with the look

7.       Make sure the makeup artist does your makeup in the brightest spot possible to make certain they do a perfect job

8.       Don’t forget to wear a button down shirt when getting your hair and makeup done. You don’t want to end up having to be cut out of your shirt:P

9.       If a pimple arises on your wedding day. Cover it up. Do not pop it!

10.   Make sure to tell your makeup artist about the time of day for your wedding, the wedding colours and the shade of your dress (pure white, cream, champagne etc.).

If you are stressing about any of these details do not worry about it! Your wedding planner knows these and many other helpful tips and tricks. She/he will be there to ensure you look and feel amazing in every picture!